When people are stressed after a break up with their partners, they doubt whether dating someone else immediately, is a good idea. My advice is to go for it. It is better to mix with people and talk your woes out. Going in a shell and isolating yourself is senseless and more painful. Besides, you really don’t have to go hunting for a date. This is an age of internet. You can use the several sites on the net to search for a date. You are not doing this out of desperation. This is very common now, just like ‘my space’ or ‘twitter’ account.  When people are stressed after a break up with their partners, they doubt whether dating someone else immediately, is a good idea.  Win your ex back now.