Just because, the love of your life has left you broken hearted does not mean the relationship is thoroughly over. That is unless you want it to be. If you still want the relationship to continue, there are things you can do to get the relationship back on track. That is how I felt after my breakup, than I started reading anything on how to get my love back. I quickly learned that not all relationships are meant to be. That if the relationship you want does not work, than there is another one out there waiting for you. I learned not to dwell on the past, but to think positively about the future.